Some are evil and just want to get in your pants. My Moon quincunx his Moon. Our fake fears you know, the what if's? Maybe one person see's the other person as not measuring up to their standards. I think anyway 12th house is involved. I still dont know WHY that occurred . Hanging onto him and wishing for return engagements may bring you much heartache, and even loss he might be a sociopath and if that is how he rolls you could lose much in the ways of material goods. I am so swamped with feelings for him all the time, am pretty much obsessed, really, but there are no real connections between us except for in the air. and NO MORE 12TH HOUSE PARTNERS FOR ME!! Plus his venus is in cancer and my north node and asc are in cancer. Venus person and House 1 person feel a. I don't know. 12th house is not the greatest for expression i am afraid. To the point it's hard to explain to others especially because we're no longer together. In re: to the 12th House attractions, not surprisingly, I always attract Gemini natives mostly Lunar Geminis, or those with Gemini strongly paced in their chart; i.e., Mercury, Venus or Mars. Cause he had to be free. Often, there is a distinct feeling of mistrust in these scenarios, especially on the part of the planet person. I leave, but I always come back after a while. Designed to help you in the 1 minute it takes to read. Some dont want to, ever. I really like the Leo energy. Having someones sun in your 12th though, I dont believe it is a nice experience for the planet person, especially a fire sun. ( also his merc, pluto and uranus are in my 12th). I wish you luck in dealing with your guy; maybe it will turn out sweeter than what I went through. Maybe we should all listen to our inner voices; intuitively we always KNOW who is bad or good. Required fields are marked *. and my northnode conjuct on his jupiter and saturn on my 2nd house. On top of this, his Pluto is either square or conjunction my NN, Im pretty sure its the square. Hi Aida! I only noticed it after my 12th-Houser came into my life and affected me deeply that is when my own natal Gemini placement came out in me full and strong. It was a relationship that brought up many subconscious issues for both, but also very intimate, we shared a lot of stuff wed never shared with anyone before. If a person is open to the supernatural, this would be a positive thing to see in an overlay. Sounds karmic or so I think. Can you tell me whats really going on here? I can confirm that he appears in my dreams often and usually these are precognitive dreams. He understands me in a very deep level. Anyone else care to share? Otherwise we kind of don't touch. THAT is a swift ender for my 3-placement Leo (read: THE QUEEN) who became TOTALLY OFFENDED by his antics. On the second day of this happening, he told me that it was weird because he was going through the same thing because of a blood sugar problem where his blood sugar was going too low. It's like the cuddling is saved for when the other really needs it. He showed me where to go, was a teacher to me, yet he said I was too young for him and that was only thing that in his opinion is stop to a relationship of a serious kind. 12th house synastry is way too murky for me to tangle with. We started off some kind of bizar friendship in where I felt like a teacher towards a child, I always pulling, he always coming towards me, and then everytime when he came, he ran away, literally, like he got burned or something. In synastry when people impact this house, there is often sort of confessional that occurs. Tense aspects can be difficult to overcome. Sometimes it's strange and you can't make sense of it. Please see special article on The 12th house synastry along with Neptune Moon Aspects for the descriptions will explain in greater detail. Venus in Twelfth House Meaning in Synastry When someone's Venus falls in another person's twelfth house, the planet person acts as a magical entity that activates the house person's imagination and inspires subconscious romantic feelings. I don't expect him to pour his heart out every second. I can definitely feel the effects of his planets in my 12th, but in your experience is the planet person affected? Absolutely killing me .He was in love then all of a sudden he wasn't and said we couldn't sleep together anymore . Specific to you, the overlay situation might have some play here, but my guess is that theres more to this story. You can hide things from eachother and it can make you feel vulnerable or weary, so it's not a house for everyone. His Pluto squares my Sun, Moon, Mercury, Saturn and NN. I agree with your experience. For a better experience, please enable JavaScript in your browser before proceeding. I just recently met someone by accident online (a learning site.) Topic: Venus in 12th house Synastry: KarkaQueen Knowflake . This is a very private house, and it holds all of our self conscious fears, most of the time we don't like this house activated especially if this is a person that will use this against us.If the Mars person is selfish and self-serving, he or she may use their knowledge of your bad habits, blind spots and personality weaknesses to manipulate or hurt you. I know I can read him more accurately than anyone else in his life and it scares him sometimes. I really felt that I WAS him that is, until he started bashing me mentally and spiritually. Sigh.. But we do know a lot more about it than we did some time ago. He does tell me how he feels about me. In this relationship, you tend to agree to a no-obligation arrangement from the start. As he has moved on, you must do also. As with all conjunctions, Venus conjunct Pluto synastry can play out in positive and negative scenarios alike.. Venus conjunct Pluto synastry relationships are based on the partners' strong romantic and physical attraction. Very confusing . . Hes a vampire and hes not worth it. i had experience with a guy who have 4 benefic planets in my 12th house. Its like the subconscious need to help him grow as a person. You could have an unwavering affection for this individual. I also faced this same situation from my present crush whom he married with the woman same as my first ex BF criteria. In fact, I was his spiritual company for more than the twenty years we spent apart. As a rule, it is generally the house person who feels the energies the most. He is a Scorpio sun conjunct Pluto, Moon square Pluto (a magnet) with Mars in Libra conjunct Mercury. you just have to separate your spirit from them somehow, as that seems to be the deepest connection between you and them. He bitches if i drink too much wine lol. And it is an easy relationship. They may feel a strong sense of familiarity or a deep emotional bond that is difficult to explain. With the Unaspected Venus, the sensibilities would be similar to Oscar and Felix in the Odd Couple. The 12th house is mysterious, magical, elusive, highlypsychic, spiritual, and the most interesting thing about it in synastry is that relationships with planets here tend to function mostly on a unconscious level, and even a whole other world entirely. I even took a sleep aid and could not sleep. Relationships that take place here( 2 or more planets in this house) offer a great deal of healing, self undoing, and even unconditional love but it's not easy to navigate. The comments here suggest that he could be affected, but I noticed that in these cases the planet person fell into the house person's 12th, but the house person's planets also fell into their intense houses (1st, 7th, 5th, etc).I have north node in his 12th, but nothing else falls into his 12th. With him, it's never "goodbye," no matter what. Now i know why. Sounds like your experience was on the negative side. It's very common to do with placements in this house. Any help would be greatly appreciated.p.s., any planet people willing to share their experience with their planets in someone's 12th would also be appreciated, As far as who feels what.. it would make sense they both would feel it since one persons planet is being housed ( in a environment) therefore the planet is being influenced also by the house person in their approach and the others is bringing the energy influence. My 12th house Saturn conjunct his NN and His Chiron and Saturn conjunct my NN. In synastry, composite, transits, solar returns.always the bringing the worst. You will also find you share many of the same values, interests, and likes. In fact, Venus is considered another guru in astrology besides Jupiter, which become exalted in the most spiritual sign Pisces. No WONDER I cant get it on for long with my Gemini partners . He might love you but in his own way. He doesnt want a relationship but he wants you to feed some unstated emotional void so he keeps you strung along with longing stares and subtle flirtations. Venus in 12th entirely depends on how well both people can handle Neptune. What's weird to me is that I can't decide if he's intentionally obscuring himself or if it is unintentional based on the nature of his personality. When we met I felt like I had seen him before..we started talking online then decided to meet. I'm very new here so read at your own risk! Lol. I never know what hes thinking, which is rare for me. The Sun person sees in the 11th house person someone, who they can spend pleasant time with. The relationship functions mostly on an unconscious level and there is often much misunderstood or misinterpreted if you arent very clear in your speaking with each other. He turned out to be one dark character and a real piece of work, and it took me nearly 3 years with all SORTS of ups and downs, bumps and bruises, to get over him so that I could outs him from my spirit. Never felt this way in my life. Should I run now?? Sent 5 times a week. It's often the downfall of many relationships with planets here. it be TROUBLE at times, and very hard. He s got a new girl in his life and I wish him well! Pretty much text book situation. Do you mind posting a synastry? Sorry, Mr. Gemini . I dont think it was his fault he told me he was going through a lot and I know he was but he asked me be friends which I thought was friend zoning me but he has aquarius descendant and he told me to watch this movie afyer he asked to be fruends where the opening line was friends cant be friends and have sex and he said he wasnt done having sex. Without knowing of his opposite actions that indicate his interest in you, its hard to weigh this and determine what the deal is. If he has Moon/Cancer, just know that you are dealing with an emotional and sensitive soul, which of course will make him insecure in his dealings with you. But yet together telepathically and spirtually. First of all i think in this case venus is in the 1st house. He is the same, because even if there is nothing that ties us, in any way, we would still feel like inclined to keep communicating. I've never experienced Venus in my 12th house until now, but yup That's what it is like. So, know that their insecurities and feelings may get in the way of connective relationships. The planet Venus takes its name from the Roman goddess of love, lust, beauty and fertility. Either come correct or go away. To this some spice adds venus/neptune square. They may also help you feel secure and confident when they are around. Ultimate Bulletin Board 5.46a. Then when I tell him, he has this quiet way of breaking through all the **** and getting to the heart of it, but in a really gentle way. Its like the sayingif you Love someone let them go. Ill blink and its 1am. Sadly, I was the house person and hopelessly in love, while the Venus person would not admit their feelings even though we both knew they did feel for me, just like I felt for them.. Actually, the guy told me "I love you, *insert my name here*" while we were in class, but we barely knew each other and I didn't know if he was being serious.. later on he denied it said it was a joke (but it wasn't). . So the conversations might be heavy and deep, or they are at least exposing of one whether good or bad. We also share moon Conj Mars, moon and Pluto Conj & trine. JavaScript is disabled. Pluto in your partners 1st This placement can be very powerful between two people that are attracted to each other in a love relat Jupiter in synastry represents where we will inspire, encourage and instill faith in our partners, and even addthem luck. Venus the Goddess of love represents our love nature, our desires, our desire for the good things in life, our style, the way we act to attract, what we attract along with what we value and what we have or want. Negatively, the planet person can use any of these fears as a way to control them, manipulate them or to use against them in some way. Long time away for me. I remember I was passing by a tall guy, and in a quick thaught, I thaught: this one looks very handsome. i guess if the house person is non-scorpionic, or less-scorpionic perhaps, they won't run away scared because they feel they are exposed, lol If the house person is heavy-scorpio people, hmm don't even think aboutt having relationship with this peeps, they will ruuuuunnnn away asap no matter how much you mean to them. You are using an out of date browser. Blessings come in MANY modes and appearances! It is spiritual for both people, but sometimes this is why the relationships seem to be so painful if they end. All 12th House relationships are not bad; mine was. I also was getting crazy muscle twitches. The twelfth house by its nature is diffuse and undefined. Ultimate Bulletin Board 5.46a. Or it can bring us confusion, misunderstandings, enhance our fears, and sometimes scare our darn pants off like when were having a nightmare. Am thankful that noting bad occurred from him, but there was the feeling that he could and would hurt me. But I always wonder if he feels the same because the 12th house is illusive, So many sites / people say that it is only the house person that will be affected / obsessed. We face the same situation when someone touch our 12th house. What activity do you have going on between your S.O. such beautiful love, they put it behind the scene. Hi, 12th house placements are highly impressionable, they stay with you long after because it's a highly idealized house, be careful you can easily fool yourself. But, he is the one who has been a sort of confessional from the very beginning. In a synastry chart, Venus in the 12th House can indicate a spiritual or karmic connection between the two individuals. Too late I realized that I loved him unconditionally. An Unaspected Venus in synastry has a different slant. I wish you lick with your 12th Houser, but there is a saying that 12th House connections are doomed to fail at least at one point. I really have no idea whats going on but we have crazy placements, if anyone wants to discuss further please let me know!! Where you see Venus, you can expect things to have an easy flow. For someone who may be married to a 12th Houser and are tanking under their emotional and spiritual holds, just try to find ways to LEAVE them, leave the house you share with them, and move far away.